You and your partner are finally expecting a baby after dealing with male infertility. Congratulations! If you’re like most older dads who undergo vasectomy reversal, you’re looking forward to being a hands-on, involved dad in your kid’s life. But you might feel a little lost during the pregnancy itself. After all, she’s the one doing the hard work of carrying the baby, right? Actually, there are still plenty of ways expecting dads can get involved during the pregnancy—and she’ll definitely appreciate your efforts!
Take charge of the household upkeep.
Cleaning is hard, physical work, and as your partner’s pregnancy progresses, her body might not be up to it anymore. Growing a baby is exhausting work, and she needs to rest as much as possible. Plus, trying to push a vacuum with a belly bump in the way can be tricky. Additionally, many women become nauseated at the smell of cleaning products (some of which may be toxic). Help her out by taking over some of the cleaning responsibilities, switching to nontoxic cleaners, and hiring a maid as needed. Note that if you have a cat, you’ll definitely need to clean the litter box. Pregnant women must avoid this task, due to the risk of toxoplasmosis.
Ease your partner’s aches and pains.
The changes associated with pregnancy can hurt. Your partner will almost certainly experience an aching back and sore, swollen feet. When she gets home from work, she’ll probably want nothing more than to kick back on the couch and relax. So surprise her by giving her a foot rub and back massage.
Be active in the baby prep process.
Planning for a baby’s arrival is practically a full-time job in itself. Be active in the planning process by researching the safest car seats, cribs, and baby bottles. Paint the nursery on a day when she isn’t home to spare her from the fumes. Assemble the crib as soon as you bring it home so she doesn’t have to worry about asking you to do it. And don’t skip those parenting classes and doctor’s appointments!
Here at the Center for Vasectomy Reversal, we’re immensely proud of the beautiful babies we’ve helped couples conceive over the years. Our vasectomy reversal surgeon in Sarasota looks forward to meeting you and your partner and helping you make an informed decision about the surgery. Call (941) 894-6428 to request your consultation with Dr. Joshua Green.
After you’ve dealt with infertility procedures, vasectomy reversals , and other efforts to achieve a pregnancy, when you do conceive, it’s normal to have some mixed feelings about when to share the news. On one hand, you are likely to feel so excited that you want to tell your loved ones the good news so that they can celebrate with you. However, you may also feel hesitant to tell anyone during the early stages of the pregnancy, in case anything goes wrong. Although there is no right answer that works for everyone, here are some things to consider as you decide when to make your announcement.
Consider Your Need for Support
During the early stages of a pregnancy, morning sickness and overwhelming fatigue are normal. Many couples find that letting close friends and family members in on the secret in this stage lets them call on their loved ones for support when they need it. Even if there is a problem with the pregnancy, sharing the news at this stage means that you will have a built-in support system should you need it. If you think that you will need help with everyday activities because of the demands of early pregnancy or simply want to know you have emotional support if you need it, you may want to share your news early.
Look Towards the End of the First Trimester
Many couples choose to wait for the end of the first trimester to make an announcement for a few reasons. Miscarriages are most likely during this time, so people feel more secure in their pregnancies after getting through it. Women also tend to start showing at this point, so sharing the news will prevent whispers and questions. For couples with histories of miscarriages, being cautious about sharing the news until this stage can be comforting.
Are you ready to make your dream of starting a family come true? Let Dr. Green at the Center for Vasectomy Reversal help you find the right solution to male infertility for your needs. Make an appointment with Dr. Green in Sarasota by calling (941) 894-6428.
When your partner gets pregnant after a vasectomy reversal or a long battle with male infertility , you will want to do everything in your power to ensure that she has a healthy pregnancy. Stress can significantly contribute to pregnancy complications, including miscarriage. Help your partner avoid these risks and have a stress-free pregnancy you can both enjoy with this advice.
Be Available for Appointments
Facing pregnancy alone is difficult. Instead of expecting your partner to go to doctor appointments alone, accompany her. She may just want you to listen to the doctor during the appointment, or she may want you to take part in conversations about her care. Talk to her about what makes her the most comfortable before the visit. During these appointments, you will be faced with decisions about prenatal testing. Help your partner make these choices so that she doesn’t have to be responsible for them alone.
Help Her Adapt to Lifestyle Changes
For many women, adapting to the lifestyle changes that are necessary during pregnancy can be stressful. From giving up her morning coffee to her evening glass of wine, your partner may be facing the prospect of nine months of limitations. Consider making some lifestyle changes yourself so that you are going through the process together and she feels supported.
Let Her Rest
During pregnancy, hormone levels and the demands on the body may make your partner more fatigued than usual. Struggling to keep up with her normal schedule may be overwhelming. Emphasize to your partner that your support her need for more rest during pregnancy. Rather than letting things pile up that your partner would normally do, jump in and do them for her so she’s free to get the rest she needs.
Are you and your partner ready to start your family? Let the Center for Vasectomy Reversal help you recover your fertility and grow your family. You can make an appointment with Dr. Green in Sarasota by calling (941) 894-6428.
Vasectomy reversal is usually the first step in starting a new family, but it isn’t a guarantee that pregnancy will be easy. In addition to working closely with your vasectomy reversal surgeon to determine if your procedure was successful, there may also be fertility issues that your partner might need to address before you can achieve a pregnancy.
Watch this video to learn some of the ways that women can address lingering fertility issues when a vasectomy reversal doesn’t result in a pregnancy. When IVF becomes necessary for a couple, a vasectomy reversal surgeon can assist with sperm retrieval.
At the Center for Vasectomy Reversal , we help couples achieve their dream of starting a family with effective infertility procedures. To learn more about how we can help you, contact our vasectomy reversal surgeon Dr. Green in Sarasota by calling our clinic at (941) 894-6428.
If you started a family before your vasectomy and now have a pregnant partner after a vasectomy reversal , one of the most exciting moments will be sharing the news with your kids. Here are some ideas for letting your kids know that they are getting a new brother or sister.
Take Your Kids to a Doctor’s Appointment
Older children might not fall for this trick, but for younger kids, consider springing the news by taking them to one of your doctor’s appointments. Watch the realization set in as they see the baby on the ultrasound screen or when they hear the heartbeat, or explain to them exactly what is happening if they don’t get it at first. Not only is this a great way to share the news, but it is also exciting for your kids to see what the baby looks like at this stage and to actually hear their new sibling’s heart beating.
Get a Cake
Something almost every kid can agree on is cake, so send a message with a special cake that delivers the news. Order or bake a cake in the shape of a baby item, or have the news written on the cake. This method helps to share the news and gives you something to celebrate it with all at the same time. You can also use a cake later in the pregnancy to reveal the gender to your child.
Give Your Kids a Gift
There are lots of fun big brother and big sister items you can give your kids, from t-shirts to tote bags, that share the news and give them a little something to commemorate the occasion. You can also give each of your kids a scrapbook they can use to memorialize their experiences during the pregnancy and arrival of their new brother or sister. These scrapbooks can become treasured mementos in the future.
Dr. Joshua Green at the Center for Vasectomy Reversal in Sarasota makes moments like these possible with our vasectomy reversal and infertility procedures . Make an appointment to see if you are a candidate for vasectomy reversal by calling (941) 894-6428.
Vasectomy reversal and infertility procedures are intensely private affairs. Couples going through these processes often pick and choose who they share information with carefully, but still, they often find themselves facing difficult questions from people who may mean well but who are prying for details. In some cases, news about your infertility treatments can be spread to more people that you anticipated, which leaves you facing even more questions. If you are confronted with difficult questions about your infertility and efforts to become pregnant, here are some tips to help you cope.
Control Your Updates
It’s natural for people who care about you to want to know how your fertility treatments are going and if you have been successful in getting pregnant. However, having to answer the same questions repeatedly can be stressful and frustrating. To reduce the need to repeat the same information, when you tell people you are undergoing infertility procedures, let them know exactly how you will deliver updates. For instance, you may promise to send out an email to everyone when your vasectomy reversal is completed, so that all of the people who need to know find out without you having to have individual conversations.
Have a Standard Response
You may not always want to answer questions about your infertility treatments, especially when the people asking are people who you would prefer not to share information with. It can be helpful to have a standard response in mind so that you’re not caught off-guard and can easily change the subject. Something as simple as a sigh and saying “not today” while steering the conversation to another topic can do the trick.
Keep a Sense of Humor
Having a sense of humor and being able to laugh off prying questions can be one of your most effective tools. A laugh and a quick joke can let people know how you want to cope with this life-changing process.
At the Center for Vasectomy Reversal, Dr. Joshua Green and his staff will support you on every step of your journey to start your family. You can learn more about vasectomy reversal in Sarasota by calling (941) 894-6428.
If you undergo a vasectomy reversal with the goal of starting a family, you may be surprised by some of the changes that occur with your partner during the pregnancy. Just as your vasectomy reversal was a process your partner could sympathize with but not experience, pregnancy creates a wide range of effects that require your support and understanding.
Watch this video to find out what men need to know about pregnancy. Your partner will be dealing with far-reaching physical and emotional changes during this time and will need more help from you than normal during those nine months.
Dr. Joshua Green and the Center for Vasectomy Reversal can help you start a family with vasectomy reversal in Sarasota. To make an appointment or get more information about vasectomy reversals, please call (941) 894-6428.
- Sperm Retrieval
- vasectomy reversal
- Dr. Green
- sperm count
- male infertility
- medical care
- low sperm count
- male fertility testing
- sperm aspiration
- semen analysis
- post-vasectomy pain syndrome
- anti-sperm antibodies
- older dad
- general anesthesia
- gender reveal party
- post-operative infections
- baby name
- baby's first year
- fertilization process
- spinal anesthesia
- ACS Fellow
- nutrition tips
- concierge-level care
- fertility planning app
- out-of-town patients
- post-vasectomy reversal
- sperm quality
- baby registry
- surgical care
- surgical consultation process
- prostate cancer